Five ways to spice up your relationship
Most times it gets to a point in every relationship where the thrill is all gone, the spice starts to faze once you move out of the infactuation stage. When was the last time time you had mad fun? I bet it’s been so long ago.
1.Send affectionate note:
Sending sexy text and lovely messages to your partner should be your priority. Some times make it a handwritten letter. Do this on a weekly basis.
2. Be full of surprises:
Eunice Carreira of Kaneohe, Hawaii said, ‘sometimes i tell my husband to expect a surprise after the kids go to bed”. The anticipation alone keeps him excited all day long”. Be unpredictable, throw a surprise birthday party, give a surprise gift, do what you’ve never done under the sheets with your spouse when the kids are asleep. Being mysterious can create the romance you’re missing.
3. Tell your spouse exactly what you want:
Communication remains an excellent key to a better relationship. Speak out, don’t keep your desires to yourself, tell your spouse what you like and dislike. You can’t be angry at your wife for not giving you a kiss every morning if you don’t tell her you want it and you like it. Be open-minded.
4. Slow down:
Experts say that extra time spent on foreplay will increase your arousal and will ultimately make for a more gratifying experience. Don’t always rush sex, relax, explore each other, spend time in foreplay. Enjoy each others company and have a wonderful experience together.
5. Have a “we’ time:
Save a date and take time out to go on a trip, just the two of you. Changing your usual relationship setting can spark up those feelings and make your relationship feel brand-new again.
It’s very essential to do the unusual in order to spice things up and bring back that passionate feeling again in your relationship, after you’ve been in a really long relationship and it’s tiring already.
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