Ladies!!! Signs he is using you for sex

You can be dating someone, okay, maybe you are assuming that you are dating them but then you are in the relationship alone.

We can call it situationship; this is whereby you are always hidden in the house. You don’t get to go outside holding hands.

A good time girl is different, you go outside, you don’t hold hands but you are always on call for a bit of fun. This is why ladies get confused thinking they are dating someone. He calls you when he is going somewhere so you assume it is official.

Thing is good time girls are never the ones these people (read; men) don’t marry. You might just be wasting your time with the guy. Don’t try to change his mind either because;

1. If he took you to a lodging on some road trip you went to with the ‘boys’, he does not respect you.
2. Those daring games you play remain etched on someone’s mind. That perception will not change; especially if the boys were part of it.
3. All his boys know he will not marry you because he told them from the beginning what the deal was. A man would rather cut off his own hand than admit he was wrong.

Advise, just have your fun if that is what you are there for but when it comes to getting into a relationship, don’t let it be a question of trying to talk to this dude. He already has an idea and you are not it because of the things you two have done together.

Good time girls are always invited to ‘hang out’ with the boys.

When they don’t censor their language around you, they do for their women, you are the good time girl.

You are a friends with benefits but only a once in a while friends with benefits (there are categories to this one too). You are not called every day but there is that one who is always on call. You will not know her by the way because you do not run in the same circles. You are part of the ‘boys’ club.